Even as memory fades, love remains.

Hi Mom brings your family's messages (texts, photos, and voice memos) directly to your loved one's TV screen. Designed for families caring for someone with dementia. No new habits to learn. No devices to figure out. Just love, where they already look.

I'll let you know when Hi Mom is available. No spam, ever.

Hi Mom message on TV: Hi Mom. I hope you're having a great day. Thinking about you and can't wait to see you soon. Love you.Hi Dad message on TV: Hi Dad - I didn't forget about you! Hoping you're having a great day. I'll call you later today.Voice memo on TV: A message from Doug - sent a voice message. Press OK to play.Hi Mom home screen on TV: Today is Monday, April 20, 2026. 1:05 PM. 66°F Sunny. Your home in Fairfax.

Why the TV changes everything

My mother has dementia. I tried another product: a dedicated display that sat on her table. She'd look right past it, as though it didn't exist. Not because she forgot it was there. Because it was never part of her world before dementia, so it has no place in her mental map now.

The TV is different. She's watched TV for years. It's woven into her daily life. That habit is still there. My hope isn't complicated: that she sees a message, even if she forgets it ten minutes later, and feels loved.

Dr. Doug Kaufman, founder

Familiar habits outlast dementia

Research in neuropsychology consistently shows that procedural and habitual behaviors, things done thousands of times, are among the last things dementia affects. Watching television is one of the most deeply ingrained daily habits in older adults. Hi Mom works with that habit, not against it.

Emotional memory outlasts factual memory

Studies of Alzheimer's patients show that emotional experiences (feeling joy, feeling safe, feeling loved) leave lasting impressions even when the specific memory of what caused them does not. Even if your message is forgotten in minutes, the feeling it created may linger for hours.

Social connection protects quality of life

Research consistently identifies social connection as one of the strongest predictors of wellbeing in people living with dementia. Isolation accelerates decline. Feeling remembered, knowing that someone is thinking of you, matters enormously, even when the disease makes reciprocating difficult.

How it works

Simple for the whole family

Your family sends love from wherever they are. It shows up on the TV your loved one already watches, automatically and beautifully, without any action on their part.

Set up the app

Create a Hi Mom for your loved one in minutes. Invite family members to join: children, grandchildren, close friends. Everyone can send messages.

Send from your phone or computer

Open the Hi Mom app on any phone or computer. Send a text message, share a photo, record a voice memo, or send a check-in. It takes less than a minute.

It appears on their TV

Your message goes directly to their television screen. No buttons to press, no apps to open, no action required. When a new message arrives, a gentle notification appears over whatever they're watching, then Hi Mom opens automatically.

They feel loved

They see your face. They hear your voice. They read your words. Even if they forget ten minutes later, in that moment they know you're thinking of them. That moment matters.

Features & benefits

Built for how they actually live

Every decision in Hi Mom was made with one question in mind: will this work for someone with dementia?

TV-native display

No new behaviors to learn

Hi Mom lives on the TV they already watch. There's no new device to remember, no app to find, no button to press. The habit is already there. I just meet them where they are.

Every kind of message

More than words

Send a text, share a photo from a recent family gathering, or record a voice memo so they can hear your voice. Different messages land differently. Sometimes a familiar face says more than any words can.

Everyone in one place

Everyone can show up

Invite the whole care circle: children, grandchildren, siblings, close friends. Each person can send messages independently. Your loved one's board becomes a living stream of everyone who loves them.

Always-on orientation

Gentle grounding, every day

When there are no new messages, Hi Mom shows the day, date, time, weather, and a warm reminder of where home is. Small anchors that help orient and calm, quietly present, always there.

Hi Mom app showing the message feed with recent messages from family members

Message feed

Hi Mom app showing the compose screen with text, photo, voice, and check-in options

Compose

Hi Mom app showing the care circle with family members and invite code

Care circle

What we believe

Love doesn't need to be remembered to be real.

There is a particular grief in loving someone with dementia. You show up, and they may not remember you were there. You call, and the conversation dissolves. You send a card, and it gets lost in the shuffle of a day they can no longer hold together.

Hi Mom doesn't solve that grief. Nothing does. But it gives you somewhere to put your love: a place where it will actually land. Where it will be seen. Where, in some quiet and unverifiable way, it will be felt.

We built this for families who haven't stopped showing up. We built it because showing up should count, even across distance, even through dementia, even when memory can't hold the moment. The love is still real. It deserves to reach them.

Frequently Asked Questions

Questions families ask

If something's on your mind that isn't answered here, join the waitlist and I'll answer it personally.

Setup & Compatibility

Hi Mom currently works with Sony smart TVs running Android TV or Google TV, as well as Google TV Streamer devices. We're working to expand compatibility to other smart TV brands. If you're not sure whether your loved one's TV is compatible, join the waitlist and I'll help you figure it out personally.

You'll need a compatible Sony smart TV and a one-time setup that takes about 15 minutes. It requires downloading the Hi Mom app onto the TV and running a simple configuration step. If you're comfortable following step-by-step instructions, you can do it yourself. We'll also offer guided setup support for families who need it.

About 15 minutes from start to finish. You set it up once, and after that it runs automatically — no ongoing maintenance required.

Nothing at all. Messages appear on their TV automatically. They don't need to press a button, open an app, or do anything differently than they already do. If they're watching something when a message arrives, a gentle notification appears on screen, and Hi Mom opens by itself after a short time. The entire experience requires zero action on their part.

Yes. Hi Mom runs on the smart TV itself, not on the cable box. Your loved one can watch cable as they normally would, and when a message arrives, it will appear on screen regardless of what they're watching.

For your loved one

This was one of my biggest concerns when designing Hi Mom. Messages appear gently — there's no loud alert, no jarring interruption. A soft notification slides onto the screen, stays visible for about 30 seconds, then Hi Mom opens automatically to show the full message. The design is calm, warm, and uses large text that's easy to read from across the room.

The notification appears briefly over whatever they're watching, then Hi Mom opens automatically to show the message. After they've seen it — or after the TV has been idle — it returns to normal. They don't need to do anything to make this happen.

Hi Mom is designed to work without any remote interaction. Messages display automatically, rotate on their own, and require no button presses. The only time a remote is needed is for voice memos, which require pressing OK to play. Everything else is completely hands-free.

Hi Mom is designed with advanced dementia in mind. The interface is intentionally simple — large text, warm colors, one message at a time. When there are no new messages, the screen shows the day, date, time, weather, and a reminder of where home is. These small anchors can help with orientation and calm without requiring any interaction.

That's okay. That's expected. The goal of Hi Mom isn't for your loved one to remember receiving a message — it's for them to feel loved in the moment they see it. Research shows that emotional experiences leave impressions even when the specific memory does not. They may forget the message in ten minutes. The feeling it created may stay much longer.

For your family

As many as you'd like. You create a Hi Mom for your loved one and invite the whole care circle — children, grandchildren, siblings, close friends. Each person can send messages independently from their own phone or computer.

You can send text messages, photos, and voice memos. You can also send a check-in message that gives your loved one a simple way to respond — letting you know they're OK. More message types are coming.

Yes. You can write a message now and schedule it to appear at a specific time — useful for morning greetings, birthday messages, or letting them know you'll call later that day.

Hi Mom tracks when messages are delivered to the TV. You'll see delivery confirmation in the app. We're working on additional ways to help families feel confident their messages are being seen.

Yes. You can remove any message from the board at any time through the Hi Mom app. It will stop appearing on the TV immediately.

Privacy & Security

Only people you've invited to the Hi Mom care circle can send messages. Anyone in the same room as your loved one can see messages displayed on the TV — which is intentional. Hi Mom is designed to be a warm, open presence in the home, not a private inbox.

Yes. Messages, photos, and voice memos are stored securely and are only accessible to members of your care circle. We don't sell your data, share it with third parties, or use it for advertising. Ever.

No. Your loved one's Hi Mom is protected by a private share code. Only people you personally invite can join the care circle and send messages.

No. Hi Mom has no camera and no microphone. It displays messages on the TV — that's it. There is no recording, no monitoring, and no video of any kind.

Availability & Pricing

Hi Mom is currently in development. I'm testing it with families and refining the experience before a wider release. Join the waitlist and I'll personally let you know when it's ready.

Pricing hasn't been finalized yet. My goal is to make Hi Mom accessible to the families who need it most. Waitlist members will be among the first to know — and will receive early access pricing.

Yes. Family members send messages through the Hi Mom app, which works on any phone or computer — no download required. It's a web app that works in your browser.

Hi Mom requires an internet connection to receive new messages. If the connection goes out temporarily, the TV will continue to show the most recently received messages and the orientation screen. New messages will appear as soon as the connection is restored.

Even as memory fades, love remains.

Hi Mom is currently in development. Join the waitlist to be among the first families to use it.

An older couple sitting together on a sofa, looking at the TV screen showing a Hi Mom message from their family

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Be there for them, starting now

Hi Mom is in development. Join my waitlist and I'll let you know the moment it's ready. No spam. Just a note when it's time.

I'll let you know when Hi Mom is available. No spam, ever.