Why the TV changes everything
My mother has dementia. I tried another product: a dedicated display that sat on her table. She'd look right past it, as though it didn't exist. Not because she forgot it was there. Because it was never part of her world before dementia, so it has no place in her mental map now.
The TV is different. She's watched TV for years. It's woven into her daily life. That habit is still there. My hope isn't complicated: that she sees a message, even if she forgets it ten minutes later, and feels loved.
Familiar habits outlast dementia
Research in neuropsychology consistently shows that procedural and habitual behaviors, things done thousands of times, are among the last things dementia affects. Watching television is one of the most deeply ingrained daily habits in older adults. Hi Mom works with that habit, not against it.
Emotional memory outlasts factual memory
Studies of Alzheimer's patients show that emotional experiences (feeling joy, feeling safe, feeling loved) leave lasting impressions even when the specific memory of what caused them does not. Even if your message is forgotten in minutes, the feeling it created may linger for hours.
Social connection protects quality of life
Research consistently identifies social connection as one of the strongest predictors of wellbeing in people living with dementia. Isolation accelerates decline. Feeling remembered, knowing that someone is thinking of you, matters enormously, even when the disease makes reciprocating difficult.
How it works
Simple for the whole family
Your family sends love from wherever they are. It shows up on the TV your loved one already watches, automatically and beautifully, without any action on their part.
Set up the app
Create a Hi Mom for your loved one in minutes. Invite family members to join: children, grandchildren, close friends. Everyone can send messages.
Send from your phone or computer
Open the Hi Mom app on any phone or computer. Send a text message, share a photo, record a voice memo, or send a check-in. It takes less than a minute.
It appears on their TV
Your message goes directly to their television screen. No buttons to press, no apps to open, no action required. When a new message arrives, a gentle notification appears over whatever they're watching, then Hi Mom opens automatically.
They feel loved
They see your face. They hear your voice. They read your words. Even if they forget ten minutes later, in that moment they know you're thinking of them. That moment matters.
Features & benefits
Built for how they actually live
Every decision in Hi Mom was made with one question in mind: will this work for someone with dementia?
TV-native display
No new behaviors to learn
Hi Mom lives on the TV they already watch. There's no new device to remember, no app to find, no button to press. The habit is already there. I just meet them where they are.
Every kind of message
More than words
Send a text, share a photo from a recent family gathering, or record a voice memo so they can hear your voice. Different messages land differently. Sometimes a familiar face says more than any words can.
Everyone in one place
Everyone can show up
Invite the whole care circle: children, grandchildren, siblings, close friends. Each person can send messages independently. Your loved one's board becomes a living stream of everyone who loves them.
Always-on orientation
Gentle grounding, every day
When there are no new messages, Hi Mom shows the day, date, time, weather, and a warm reminder of where home is. Small anchors that help orient and calm, quietly present, always there.
Message feed
Compose
Care circle
What we believe
Love doesn't need to be remembered to be real.
There is a particular grief in loving someone with dementia. You show up, and they may not remember you were there. You call, and the conversation dissolves. You send a card, and it gets lost in the shuffle of a day they can no longer hold together.
Hi Mom doesn't solve that grief. Nothing does. But it gives you somewhere to put your love: a place where it will actually land. Where it will be seen. Where, in some quiet and unverifiable way, it will be felt.
We built this for families who haven't stopped showing up. We built it because showing up should count, even across distance, even through dementia, even when memory can't hold the moment. The love is still real. It deserves to reach them.
Frequently Asked Questions
Questions families ask
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Setup & Compatibility
For your loved one
For your family
Privacy & Security
Availability & Pricing
Even as memory fades, love remains.
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